Icecapades

Make Her Hot With Cool Erotic Touch

There’s no doubt that the hot summer weather can make you feel sexier, steamier and more attractive. You’re finally able to break out those strapless dresses and strappy sandals, or those muscle T-shirts that show off the torso you’ve been working on at the gym all winter. But sometimes when you’re both in the mood and the passion is hot, the weather can get in the way. Let some simple ice cubes come to the rescue and enhance your summer sexual experience!

Ice Ice Baby

Wait until foreplay is underway with a little kissing, touching, etc, then once the clothes start coming off, make your partner comfortable and build up excitement by telling him you have a surprise in store. Head to the kitchen and grab your ice cube trays – consider investing in some interesting shapes; smaller is better - and empty them into a bowl, preferably plastic as metal is noisy. A clean towel is also a good idea to have around during water play.

Now let the fun begin. Start by putting an ice cube in your mouth and kissing him, passing it back and forth. Then make your way down his body – neck, shoulders, nipples, belly button – tracing an icy path all the way, until you get to the groin area. Stop and take stock of his excitement level before you continue downward to slide the ice cube along the shaft of his penis. Then alternate with and without the ice as you continue, popping the ice into your hand or the bowl for a few seconds. The sensation of your hot breath mixed with the cold ice is guaranteed to drive him wild.

Popsicle Dreams

Go to your local kitchen supply store and find a popsicle-shaped ice tray. Never mind that it was manufactured for much more innocent applications. Fill it with tap water, let it freeze and now you have a tray of plain ice popsicles! The advantage here is not that she would want you to use it as a dildo (that could be dangerous) but that you have a handle on your ice. This gives you better control to move the cool sensation all over her body.

When you’re both naked, steamed up and in the mood, use the popsicle to gently trace patterns all over her body, making lazy circles around her breasts that end in light pressure on her nipples. Then slowly graze her pubic bone and inner thighs with barely-there pressure until she’s begging for more. Now you can alternate between using the tip of the popsicle and your tongue to gently stroke her clitoris. Use the ice sparingly around these sensitive areas and don’t forget to ask her how it feels as you go. She may love the sensation, but need a barrier to its intensity, such as a sheet.

Après Cool Down

When it’s hot and sticky, sometimes even after making passionate love you just don’t want to cuddle. Here’s an alternative. Rinse off together in the shower, then lie side by side in bed with a fan blowing your way. Depending on your energy level, a cool breeze on your wet bodies will either send you off to slumberland, or invigorate you for another round.